Think before you say

Normally we didn’t think so much when we talk with our closer friends, but are they really don’t mind if we tease them like usual? What if they just bear it in mind for the previous time u tease them? It is hardly to guess what people think about when we talk about them. Talking with friend is a kind of art, we should know what to say and the way to say so that we won’t hurt the person indirectly.

I was talking to my friend the previous day, she said that she felt hurt when one of our friend tease her about her posture in taking photo. The problem is, this friend is a happy go lucky person, she never care about what people say about her, but this time she felt annoyed as she has been teased by this friend many time. She sms the girl and ask her not to tease her any more, because she felt uneasy for it.

The following is our conversation,

B : you know?i quarrel with your roommate through sms today…

Me: Huh?why you quarrel with her?

B : She always comment about me on my posture of taking photo,but this time I felt really uneasy so I talk to her through sms, so we now in “cold war”…

Me: you know her way isn’t? she always talk like that, you just regard it as a joke,then never mind lo…I always “kena” also, but I am fine with it too…

B : I just feel not happy when I see her, so these few days I won’t talk to her…

Me : I think is good for you two, need time to cool down…but no matter what happened, both of you are still my friends.

As the result, both of them haven’t talking to each other yet…I hope they can recover as previous time soon…I hope for that day..